Sunday, May 29, 2011

Passion is never enough

When discussing the subject of passion with my sister, a great New York City schoolteacher, she told me that passion is necessary, but it’s not enough—she’s right.  Passion must be coupled with other characteristics such as mental toughness, or “grit.”  No one ever achieved greatness without the quality of mental toughness. Mental toughness is essential because when you decide to be extraordinary, when you decide to go from good to great, adversity is inevitable. 
People who are mentally tough demonstrate the ability to concentrate on the accomplishment of a particular goal while enduring extraordinary difficulties, challenges, and trials.  Mentally tough people do not succumb to negative criticism, they reject doubt, and they refuse to be consumed by worries.  People who possess the quality of mental toughness have a desire to achieve excellence, to overcome every obstacle, and to conquer and extract the weaknesses within themselves. 
Mentally tough individuals exemplify persistence, resilience, and grit.  It was mental toughness that inspired James J. Corbett to say, “Fight one more round.  When your feet are so tired that you have to shuffle back to the center of the ring, fight one more round.  When your arms are so tired that you can hardly lift your hands to come on guard, fight one more round.  When your nose is bleeding and your eyes are black and you are so tired that you wish your opponent would crack you one on the jaw and put you to sleep, fight one more round—remember that the man who always fights one more round is never whipped.”  In the classroom arena, you will experience times when you feel abused, exhausted, and hurt.  Nevertheless, you must summons the courage to go one more round. 
It was knowledge of the necessity of mental toughness that influenced the words of Dr. Dennis Kimbro who wrote, “The best tools receive their temper from fire, their edge from grinding; the noblest characters are developed in a similar way.  The harder the diamond, the more brilliant the sparkle, and the greater the friction necessary to bring it out.  Only its own dust is hard enough to make this precious stone reveal its full beauty.  From an aimless, idle, and useless soul, opposition also calls out powers and virtues otherwise unknown and unsuspected.  Many times greatness will not make its entrance until adversity has paved the way.”  View the challenges you endure as nourishment.  Challenges are designed to make you stronger.